Will he like me? Do I look good enough? Do I feel desirable? These classic go-to questions seem to always buzz around in our heads when we’re on a new date. No matter how badly we want to flick away these flies of torment, and pretend they don’t exist, they always seem to creep up on our insecurities, feeding off our self-doubt. So, how can you banish these head bugs for good? The trick is changing the way you approach dating. The problem is that many women enter a dating situation with the hopes of impressing the guy and gaining his approval. Once you change this dynamic and realize your own power and worth, you can start feeling more secure on dates.